Question:
i love a boy but i don't know it he love me or not? what i'm gonna do to make him love me?
2006-08-02 08:39:44 UTC
i love a boy but idon't know he love me or not he's very very nice person. every girl want him to be her boyfriend but i love him a lot
and he respect me. but what i'm gonna do to make him love me?
25 answers:
2006-08-02 09:38:35 UTC
Show you as you are, the real person you are in a simple way.

And then try seduction, women know how to do, right ?
Orinoco
2006-08-02 15:46:49 UTC
If he respects you, then that's a good start!



I'm not sure that there is ANYTHING a girl can do to make a boy love her. I'm sure many things have been tried. Perhaps it depends on what you believe.



I believe that if you want him to really _love_ you, then you are also wanting him to _choose_ you. So you will have to try and let him see a lot of stuff that he likes is associated with you.



It doesn't mean you have to enter all the same clubs he is in, or to cheer for the same football team, but it means you have to be able to do some things together. You have to be able to do them well enough that you guys have fun doing them.



I'm talking about ... well ... talking, spending time, seeing movies, whatever. The rest of the togetherness stuff comes as the relationship progresses.



If you DO have the same hobbies and go for the same football team, so much the better!



Show a little interest (not too much) - smile at him - talk with him a bit. It'll come naturally.
Mujareh
2006-08-02 15:49:30 UTC
You have to tell him how you feel. If he really is a very very nice person, he'll take it in a gentlemanly way and won't do anything to humiliate you regarding that matter. If he respects you, then he should act that way. You can never "make" someone love you, it just happens. You have to tell him how you feel because you're never going to get settled with never knowing whether he likes you back or not.



You may not know it, but he might like you back. And the best way to find out is to tell him. But I have to tell you that judging by what you just said about him and every girl wanting to be his girlfriend, you're dealing with a heart breaker, and you're chances of winning his affections can be very limited, and carrying a relationship with him is another hard obstacle. But despite this, if you really want to get into a relationship with him, then tell him how you really feel. If you don't feel up to it, then you can just let it go.
baby_white_orchid
2006-08-02 15:46:36 UTC
He might respect you but have an open mind that he might just want you as a friend. The only way you will know that he loves you is by talking to him about your feelings towards him. But remember you really can't make someone love you or be in love with you. Good luck.
sarge927
2006-08-02 15:45:48 UTC
There is NOTHING you can do to make him love you. Either he'll love you or he won't. Sounds like he likes you, so you're off to a good start. The important thing is to be yourself and don't apologize for who or what you are. Guys like girls who are confident and don't "put on a show." And for crying out loud DON'T change for him. If you do that, he'll learn VERY QUICKLY that he can manipulate you and that respect he has for you will be gone. Remember to hold your head up high, look him in the eyes, and don't be afraid of him or anyone else. Good luck!
Answer Schmancer
2006-08-02 15:44:55 UTC
Wow, there's no way to MAKE someone love you. They either love you or they don't. You can do things to let him know that you care. Sounds like you have your heart set on your school's Mr Popular. If so, you are gonna have a rough time hooking up with him. If you aren't the head of the cheerleading squad, you are gonna have a tough time.
2006-08-02 15:44:58 UTC
Love Potion!!!!!!!!!!!



Have you ever wondered what could be in that

magical little bottle of “Love Potion #9"? Try

this, but forget about kissing the cop!

Warning....... NO GUARANTEES !!!!!!!!!!

Bottle of love-

In order to attract love towards you and preserve it

What you'll need:

-1 pink glass bottle or pot

-flowers and petals of fresh or dried flowers

-grasses (mint, rosemary, thyme, bark of orange) dried or fresh

-honey (approximately 1/4 of cup)

-white alcohol (approximately 1 cup of Vodka, Gin or Rum)

-water, sufficient to finish filling the bottle

-pink wax

Ritual:

Fill your bottle with the flowers and grasses, and while adding

them, concentrate on love, its pleasures and all the people you

like.

Pay careful attention to keeping your thoughts on the pleasures

and the joy of love because these are, to some extent

the thoughts you will be placing in the bottle.

Mix the alcohol and honey before pouring the whole on the

grasses and flowers.

Next, fill the bottle with water and seal it with pink wax

carefully.

Take the bottle in your hands and speak aloud the following:

I filled my bottle with thoughts of love and affection. They are

there now for always and they will attract towards me love and

feelings soft so that I am always loved.

When you sense ill feelings from others, go to your bottle and

agitate it gently.

This will re-activate the enchantment.
sweet angelZ
2006-08-02 15:44:37 UTC
first of all you cant make someone love you,so you have to take the relationship slow ,maybe he doesnt love you but he may like you as a friend or maybe he loves you and he just dont know how to say it or when to say it so just respect him for not coming on to you so quickly .
onapizzadiet
2006-08-02 15:46:08 UTC
do you love him simply because other girls want love him too? if he is so popular why should he choose you over the dozens of other better looking girls who want him? If he is so goo why is he single, whats wrong with him? have you thought of asking him out? thats what most girls do just don't sound as desperate as you do now or he will run a mile.
Tiaraa
2006-08-02 15:45:54 UTC
Hey, don't be upset. You need to be forward with him. Telll him how you feel in this situation. Ask him if he feels the same way that you do. Because if you don't, you're goimg to be stuck wondering and waisting your precoius time with your life. So do yourself a favor.
2006-08-02 15:50:31 UTC
do not try to make him love you. if he is a good person and looks for girls that dress modest then do it.ask him to go to something with you if he says no then you'll find someone much better for you
♀♥♂
2006-08-02 15:44:45 UTC
you can't make someone love you so don't even try. Just try being his friend and if there is something there you both will know it. Let him know you have feelings for him but don't be surprised if they aren't recipricated. not everyone is meant to be, ya know.
Lex
2006-08-02 15:43:23 UTC
You can't force someone to love you. Do you want to ask him out? Do so and if he says no, if you can't be around him while he dates other girls just accept that it's not meant to be.
2006-08-02 15:49:40 UTC
look first u gatta ease down grl then u need to try talking to him respectfully and aim for the flirt if he flirts back he likes u , if he catches u just try to say that u like him or write a note and give it to him.trust my ive tried that and it alwayas works.
lindaann_56
2006-08-02 15:45:21 UTC
sorry u can not make some one love u ..u can make the conditions right but u have to have a chemistry between u
sweethometexas2000
2006-08-02 15:44:49 UTC
If the love isn't there on his part, I don't think you can MAKE him love you. Spend time with him and maybe love will grow. If it doesn't move on!!!
Justine J
2006-08-02 15:44:11 UTC
You can never make anyone love you. If you two do get togather, he would just play with your heart. Gurl just walk away and leave it.
Hill's Wifey
2006-08-02 15:43:36 UTC
Sweetie you can't make someone love you! If he likes you alot and feel you're the one for him, he'll tell you or you'll just know it!
Smoothie
2006-08-02 15:44:05 UTC
Poor thing. You can't, but I'm sure you'll learn that after you grow up.
2006-08-02 15:44:11 UTC
Learn to speak English, then talk to him. If you try talking before then, he will think you're an idiot.
2006-08-02 15:44:53 UTC
You can't MAKE anyone love you if they don't have any interest in you
2006-08-02 15:45:03 UTC
Il voudrais ton ne' ne'.
brandiejs1979
2006-08-02 15:47:05 UTC
you cannot make someone love you
zippythejessi
2006-08-02 15:43:44 UTC
You can't make someone feel something they don't.
j034nn3
2006-08-02 15:46:51 UTC
just be yourself! if he doesn't love you for who you are then he's not worth it!


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